| Most children with autism, have a behavior | | | | parent(s) and follow instructions, for the tasks, do |
| problem, that can have a negative effect on you | | | | not compare them to your other child with |
| as parent(s). It is a difficult task to try to become | | | | autism. By doing this it will create a negativity and |
| a positive parent(s) when the frustration of your | | | | not bring forth you, as a positive parent. |
| child with autism continues his or her behavior that | | | | If fault finding with your child who has the |
| is out of control. What can be done for you to be | | | | disorder of autism is continued with a critical spirit, |
| positive? | | | | your child will pick up on your behavior and he or |
| I have learned through my experience from being | | | | she will display a resentment, a rebellious attitude |
| a parent that being picky is not going to solve the | | | | toward you and other family members. |
| problem to become positive. Criticism, for your | | | | To be a positive parent(s), you need to show |
| child will bankrupt the bond and the healthy | | | | love,encouragement, patience and understanding, |
| relationship you could be having with your child. | | | | that is positive. Our children model after us and it |
| Many parent(s) get frustrated when their children | | | | will bring them positive self-esteem, confidence |
| are not doing something the way they would do it | | | | and cause a strong bonding to you as parent(s). |
| or the way they would want them to do it. | | | | Being a positive parent(s) that has a child with |
| As parent(s), for you to become positive with a | | | | autism does reflect challenges and problems. |
| child who has autism, you must not be a | | | | Trying to solve them with anger, criticism, |
| "nitpicker" about the little things. It will break the | | | | showing frustration and putting your child down, |
| bond, relationship and trust for you as parent(s) | | | | will not give strength for being a positive |
| between you and your child. This will in addition, | | | | parent(s). These emotions that are displayed will |
| enable your child to lose his or her self-confidence. | | | | cause negativity and your child will become distant |
| Children with autism, need to be encouraged, | | | | from you and this could cause more problems. It |
| praised, loved with hugs and kisses , not to be | | | | is always wise to keep your mind set on being a |
| devalued. | | | | positive parent(s) for the fact it will set the |
| It is imperative to understand, if there are other | | | | ground work for the future of your child. |
| siblings in your family who can obey you, as | | | | |