Parallel Lives of People Diagnosed With Asperger's Syndrome

"...my life has been spent in a perpetual state ofletter he was not aware of that his father had
parallel play, alongside, but distinctly apart from,written on his behalf nine years earlier when he
the rest of humanity." With that statement, Timhad been in 7th grade. The letter had been
Page, diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome at thewritten with reference to a school discipline
age of forty-five, descriptively summarizes his life.problem and the punishment imposed on Tim. In
In this autobiographical account, Mr. Page writes ofreading the letter Tim became emotional as he
growing up, all the time deeply feeling and realizingrealized and acutely sensed his father's love. He
he was different. People said he was a geniusstates he wishes his father could have
because he could memorize maps, knew all thecommunicated "such tender emotions" to him at
bus routes and memorized parts of the Worldthe time of the incident.
Book Encyclopedia. He spent hours drawingMr. Page vividly relates the turmoil and turbulence
detailed maps of make-believe cities and writingexperienced and felt during his high school years,
stories without happy endings. He related to andfinally resulting in dropping out. Eventually, through
cared for inanimate objects; his stuffed animalsthe dedication and help of a music instructor Tim
were his best friends.was able to successfully move on with his life.
Throughout his life Tim Page felt self-conscious.Now in his fifties, Tim Page continues to view
He felt he did not fit in. He could not easily orhimself as "strange." As he looked back through
effectively relate socially to his classmates; hethe years when writing his life's story, he realized
could not establish connections. Tim felt muchlife for him was "isolated, unhappy, and conflicted."
more comfortable being around adults or youngerMr. Page's autobiographical portrayal adds to the
children.minute, but expanding number of detailed
At a very early age he became obsessed withnarratives describing life for individuals with an
music which led him to becoming a music critic forAsperger's Syndrome diagnosis. This well-written
several newspapers and eventually leading to aand fascinating autobiography adds to the
Pulitzer Prize in 1997. Also at an early age heincreasingly deeper and wider knowledge base of
became obsessed with silent films. That obsessionAsperger's Syndrome, a specific neurological
led to researching the lives of actors anddifference in some human beings.
actresses and writing creative stories withThis informative book is highly recommended
invented actors and actresses. In the sixth gradereading for anyone with a diagnosis of Asperger's
Tim bought some 8mm film, borrowed hisSyndrome, for families with an individual who
father's home-movie camera, wrote scripts andcarries such a diagnosis, for acquaintances of
directed movies with the neighborhood kids.people so diagnosed and for other people
Growing up, Tim felt distanced from and not veryinterested in further understanding the lives of
close to his father. But in packing his father's filespeople diagnosed with the neurological difference,
when the family decided to move, Tim read theAsperger's Syndrome.
contents of some of the files and discovered a