Homework - How Parents Can Take Control of Homework

Homework is too hard, too easy, too boring, tooof the educational plan. Time management,
much! Homework is a hot topic among parents,planning, and organization, often termed executive
kids, and professionals, takes up hours each day,functioning skills, are things these kids struggle
and still many people are wondering if it's evenwith. A well planned homework system can help
effective. There is a lot of discussion about ifthese children improve their executive functioning
homework helps kids learn, some research on theskills. Poorly thought out homework can make
topic, but very few clear answers. For example,their lives and yours a nightmare.
an extensive 31 page article published inIf the homework is too time consuming, covers
Educational Psychology Review is titled: "Thematerial your child hasn't yet been taught, or
Relationship Between Homework andseems pointless, you have a right to discuss your
Achievement - Still Much of a Mystery." Articlesconcerns with the teacher, or even the principal. If
on homework have appeared recently in Timeit's getting to be late, your child is exhausted, and
Magazine, "Salon.com" and professional journals. It'sthe homework has turned into an emotional
a complicated issue, depending on the age of theordeal, it's reasonable to consider putting it away
child, the type of homework, and howunfinished. And, if homework is an ongoing battle
effectiveness is measured. But one thing is quitethat is filling up all your family time and allowing
clear: homework is not going away any time soon.your child no chance for relaxation, you're
As a parent, you're going to have to live withobligated to fight the system and support your
homework, or protest it, or just decide to homechild. All children have the right to an education,
school and avoid the problem entirely. It makesbut at the same time, all children have the right to
sense to decide how you're going to manage it.be kids.
The best time to do that is not at 10 p.m. whenThe bottom line on homework is that you are the
you and your child are both exhausted and nearparents. The homework is being assigned to your
tears. Instead, come up with a plan in advance.children, to be worked on in your home. It's okay
The first step is to talk to other parents. Try toto question the value of the assignments, limit the
gauge if all the kids are struggling, or if your childtime your child spends on homework, prioritize
is having more trouble than others. Research thethe important work, discuss the assignments with
National Education Association (NEA) guidelines forthe teachers and even make the decision that,
homework, or the recommendations of Harrissometimes, homework just won't be done.
Cooper, considered by many to be theFor more information on how you and your family
homework expert. (Both can be easily found withcan most effectively manage homework, look for
a web search.) Find out the official homeworkthe other articles I've published here. For other
policy for your district or school. Finally, it's a goodopinions and studies, go online and find "The Myth
idea to talk to your child's teacher. All this advanceAbout Homework," by Claudia Wallis, Time
research may take time, but it will put you on aMagazine, August 29, 2006; the work of Harris
more even footing with the people assigning andCooper at Duke University; "Homework Hell" by
approving of the homework and allow you toAyelet Waldman on "Salon.com", October 22,
work together to make a plan.2005; and "Rethinking Homework", by Alfie Kohn
If your child has special needs, for example, isin Principal, January-February 2007. For those
diagnosed with a Learning Disorder, Attentionwilling to delve deeply into the topic, find "The
Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (AD/HD), Autism orRelationship Between Homework and
Autistic Spectrum Disorder (ASD), Asperger'sAchievement - Still Much of a Mystery", by Ulrich
Syndrome, Nonverbal Learning Disorder (NLD), orTrautwein and Olaf Koller, published in Educational
a Pervasive Developmental Disorder (PDD-NOS), itPsychology Review, Vol. 15, No. 2, June 2003.
is crucial that homework management be a part